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No one needs to cheat. If you’re staying in a steady relationship it’s for selfish reasons and that’s what you’re protecting by lying to cover up a secret double life. So they want the Buffalo Bills Buffalondon Shirt it is in the first place but security, or the financial situation, or the steady love they get from a monogamous partner, and so on. They want something, so to have both things they have to lie. If there actually is something to fix in the relationship the honest thing to do is communicate and make an effort to fix it. Failing that, break up. Leave. People cheat for all kinds of reasons. Some are just selfish and want more than one thing, and wanted it all along, which means they are perfectly content controlling and manipulating a steady partner who is kept around through deception. Some miss the energy they got when they were young and single, before they became a parent and a partner who had to account for kids, bills, and a mortgage. Then the affair partner becomes this fantasy who does not come with the responsibilities associated with adult relationships (bills, kids, etc). So that’s just some self-indulgence so they can feel young and hot again—an ego thing. Some just can’t resist a hot temptation and think what the heck, no one will find out about this, I will just do it for me. Often with that you hear stupid lines like “well I was drunk” (people drink in situtations where they know they have the opportunity to cheat precisely in order to cheat), or “we just kissed,” and all the other embarassing stupid lies.
No one has to cheat. You don’t have to be the Buffalo Bills Buffalondon Shirt it is in the first place but kind of person who in the name of your own selfish freedom denies real freedom of choice to a steady partner you keep around and control through lies. Some partners truly believe they are not doing anything wrong. There is an unwritten rule or so some believe there is that every one cheats and that as long as your spouse doesn’t see it then there’s no need to bring it up. Some people are just horrible people. Or they just don’t care. Your husband cheated, ok. Did you ever have a candid and open discussion about why he made such a decision? Did you discuss why he risked your relationship for something he had to know would be very challenging and painful for you? If you had the answer to any of these questions, are there a set of answers that would allow you to forgive him and reunite? Men cheat for many, many reasons…the secret is, in reality, it is never about the woman they are cheating on. The fact that he cheated does need to be addressed but what’s more important is the motivation for the cheating. Your husband needs to work with a solid counselor to explore what is going on with himself. By the way, he wants you back because he never stopped wanting you in the first place, you need to figure out how to separate the act of his cheating which is about his own issues and or problems, from your feeling wounded and rejected as a result of his actions. It’s not you….believe it or not, it simply is not about you. All the best friend.
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